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≈ I Did the Math on Life — and the Results Are a Little Disturbing ≈   ∞ A good reason to start rebuilding respect for each other now ∞ Ok, I know. I’m an idealist. A dreamer. Naïve. Foolish. Possibly the only adult left who still believes the “Reply All” button should be used responsibly. I think no one should suffer. No one should go without food, clothing, shelter, or education. I think life is not a competition. It’s not a reality show where the one standing at the end is the winner. And it’s short. Ridiculously short. Based on my completely unpaid and wildly unverified research, we spend about 30% of our lives sleeping and 70% earning a living, which leaves approximately 0% for actually living. If you make it to 80, congratulations, you’ve technically had zero years of free time. I’m not saying the math checks out, but I ran it by AI and it responded with a confident paragraph and a pie chart, so obviously it’s correct. When I re-calculated using my trusty desk calculator I ...

  ≈≈ Is a Square Round? ≈≈ ∞ A Modest Proposal for Civil Political Discourse ∞ When is a Square a Circl e ? Friends of mine like to point out, frequently and with actual mementos, that I have a hard time admitting I’m wrong. Their evidence surrounds me: a sign that says, “I am not arguing, I am just explaining why I’m right,” another proclaiming, “As long as everything is exactly the way I want it, I’m totally flexible,” and a button that reads, “I thought I was wrong once, but I was mistaken.” All gifts of love, obviously. I know this because they still answer when I call. And truth be told, I get it. It would be very hard for me to argue with them about that. I would, but it would be hard… 😊 Which brings me to my favorite kind of discussion: supporting statements like “a square is round.” It’s absurd, challenging, and oddly satisfying. It invites openness, curiosity, and discussion, not instant conclusions. And in that way, it’s not far from modern political debate, assumi...

≈ Today’s World Is Stressful. It’s Your Job to Manage It ≈ Some Thoughts On a Strategy.   In the crowd I “hang” with, we agree on a lot. (Quotation marks because most of the hanging is done through texts, and phone calls, with occasional face to faces that require travel). We agree on favorite places we’ve been. Favorite restaurants. Favorite vodka. Bucket lists. Life philosophies. We’ve known each other forever. And then there’s the stuff we don’t all agree on, worst places we’ve been, whether Clapton is the best ever, and restaurants, like the place everyone loves but one of us still actively warns complete strangers to avoid. Yes, and some politics, a little. Yet, somehow, miraculously, we still talk to each other and enjoy being with each other. No shouting. No unfriending. No dramatic exits from a group chat followed by an obscure social media meme. It’s a modern miracle worthy of study. This is called a choice. (Remember that word, it keeps coming up). There are things w...

  ≈≈ Fitting Exercise Into Your Day Without Using Any Time ≈≈ ≡ Nine Simple Things That Help ≡ **First, and most importantly, I’m not a doc, so if you’re thinking of getting into exercise talk to your doc before you do. You can send them the link so they can see what the routine is. They may want you to get checked out first. OK, disclaimer done, now it’s on your back 😊 So, I’m one of those older Northeast people that hasn’t migrated south for the winter. There’s a myriad of reasons. Our kids are here, grandkids as well. We’re comfortable in our home and happy here. We love the seasons and, not least of all, I have a wife and a watch and they both work. She works here, so here’s where we live. Super Cool Watches We have relatives and friends that are full-time South as well as those that are snowbird Floridians. They laugh at us in the winter, some pretty funny memes and comments. In the summer we ask if they’re enjoying the heat and humidity, both reported in one number, reg...

  ≈≈  In Today’s World, What is the Role of Religion?  ≈≈ -  Dangerous topic? Let’s see. - If you look at the percentage of wars throughout history fought primarily over religion, the number is surprisingly low, about 7%. That’s not to say religion hasn’t been used as a pretense, or that it isn’t deeply intertwined with ethnic identity, nationalism, or power. Who’s right, who’s wrong, whose G-d is the real one, if there is one at all. Religion is woven into our culture , politics, family, and identity, so it’s impossible to fully separate it from how we interact with one another. But, in the final analysis, religion is statistically far from the predominant driver of conflict. Up front: I’m a devout atheist. That puts me in a mixed marriage, as my wife is solidly Jewish. And yes, as they say, some of my best friends are of different faiths (although some may deny the “best” part, some even the friend’s part). They pray differently, believe differently, and even p...

Thursday’s Thoughts – Background and Residual Nuance ~Six Quotes~ “It’s a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.”  Lucille Ball. For younger readers, Lucille Ball was the 1940s–50s Beyoncé. Smart, fearless, wildly talented actor, entertainer and   businessperson. Women weren’t supposed to own much of anything in Hollywood, Lucy owned a movie studio. She got there because she was hell bent on doing what made her happy and the obstacles of her era were just part of the journey. That quote of hers has always stuck with me, and it was one of the earliest Thoughts I sent to my granddaughter. Years ago, when she started high school, I inadvertently started a tradition. No master plan. No long-term intent. I just knew high school was stressful, confusing, and loud, and I wanted to put some stuff out there for her to think about. A little perspective, some diversion, a little guidance, and, TBH, a little staying connected. So, every week, I sent her an ema...