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Thursday’s Thoughts – Background and Residual Nuance ~Six Quotes~ “It’s a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.”  Lucille Ball. For younger readers, Lucille Ball was the 1940s–50s Beyoncé. Smart, fearless, wildly talented actor, entertainer and   businessperson. Women weren’t supposed to own much of anything in Hollywood, Lucy owned a movie studio. She got there because she was hell bent on doing what made her happy and the obstacles of her era were just part of the journey. That quote of hers has always stuck with me, and it was one of the earliest Thoughts I sent to my granddaughter. Years ago, when she started high school, I inadvertently started a tradition. No master plan. No long-term intent. I just knew high school was stressful, confusing, and loud, and I wanted to put some stuff out there for her to think about. A little perspective, some diversion, a little guidance, and, TBH, a little staying connected. So, every week, I sent her an ema...

  ≈  “Fool Me Once” - Toys and AI  ≈ We received a surprising number of interesting emails after our last blog, “AI as Friends,” which basically asked, perhaps uncomfortably, whether stuffed animals should be your child’s besties. The responses ran the full spectrum, exactly as you’d expect. Some were in complete agreement, some landed in the “yes, but…” category, and a few were firmly in the kids should interact with AI early, while their brains are most absorbent camp. There were even a handful of “Wait… they can do that?” reactions. And honestly, that’s all good. Anything that sparks real discussion is worth writing about. Love it huh :) Having just past the heart of gift-giving season , we thought it was a good time to build on that interest and talk specifically about children and interactive AI toys . Full transparency: this blog is essentially the result of a discussion between me and… me. We’ve known each other a long time. Our thoughts are informed by research...

  AI, Babies, and Holiday Gifts. At what age should a child have a phone or smart device? The “accepted rule” seems to be 12–13, but almost half of the kids now get them at 10. But how about if I suggested birth? Maybe a month old? No? Silly question? Not really. Because ready or not, technology, and especially AI, is marching straight into your child’s life this year through Holiday gifts that blur the line between toy and "bestie". “Child’s play” is about to go through an existential transformation, and parents should think before they jump into the abyss. Here’s a blurb lifted straight from one AI-toy product page: “Through your child’s regular interactions with it, (cuddly toy) will develop its own unique personality. The depth of its emotional expression makes (cuddly toy) an advanced AI robot that offers a rich bond of companionship and comfort for your child.”  And the ads insist your child will bond with it for life.  For life. Cuddly Toy that creates a friends...

  Thanksgiving: Gratitude, Chaos, and That One Project I Swore I’d Finish So here we are, Thanksgiving—my favorite holiday of the year. It has always struck me as uniquely pure. A holiday designed, quite literally, to distract us from our problems so we can focus on gratitude and give people a reason to come together. That’s it. No ulterior motive. No cards to buy, no gifts to exchange. Just a day meant for gathering. It’s beautifully simple. Maybe that’s why it works. A 250-page book of handwritten grateful messages collected from strangers around the country Thanksgiving really does go back to a Pilgrim - Native American feast in the 1600s. And yes, I could give you the whole history, but I’m limited on words here and I assume you know how to search. What’s more interesting is that Abraham Lincoln made it a national holiday during the Civil War. Why? Because even he realized this country needed a timeout. One day for everyone to sit down, breathe, and say, “Okay, things are awful...

  ∞ 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD HAVE INDOOR PLANTS ∞   (Yes, YouTube Made Me Say That)   ∞   For openers, I have to confess: this headline is exactly what they told me to do on YouTube. Evidently, you’re more likely to read this blog if I shout “ 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD …” instead of simply suggesting you think about indoor plants. I apologize. I also feel better having gotten that off my chest. Now that the weather is cooling, outdoor cleanup is wrapping up, and those of us in the cooler and colder regions are retreating indoors, it’s the perfect time to shift to the simplified version of gardening— bringing the green inside . There’s still something deeply satisfying about getting your hands in the soil, tending to living things, and enjoying the reward of what grows. Cold weather doesn’t mean you have to lose that feel-good connection. Indoor gardening gives you color, texture, flowers, and even edible plants—herbs, microgreens, and real food grown right from your own d...

  Got Time? Want to Feel Good? Volunteer for a Non-Profit.  Someone Needs You. ∞   It’s a win-win kind of thing—actually, a trifecta. Keep reading, you’ll see why. In an earlier blog, we talked about Autumn’s beauty,  changing leaves, crisp air, and beautiful walks in the woods. But as one reader pointed out, this season can also bring shorter days, cooler weather, and a dip in mood or energy. The transition can affect both our physical and mental well-being. We did some research (not hard to do today…) about the why and what of that and we came up with three basic things. First, it’s real, second it affects a fair number of people, third there are things that can be done to help yourself, and others, manage it. There are some great, free support organizations across the Country, both national and local. Just do a search and you’ll find the right one for you. Don’t be shy about reaching out, you’re not alone. As part of the new AMTIFY™ direction is “doin...