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  ≈  “Fool Me Once” - Toys and AI  ≈ We received a surprising number of interesting emails after our last blog, “AI as Friends,” which basically asked, perhaps uncomfortably, whether stuffed animals should be your child’s besties. The responses ran the full spectrum, exactly as you’d expect. Some were in complete agreement, some landed in the “yes, but…” category, and a few were firmly in the kids should interact with AI early, while their brains are most absorbent camp. There were even a handful of “Wait… they can do that?” reactions. And honestly, that’s all good. Anything that sparks real discussion is worth writing about. Love it huh :) Having just past the heart of gift-giving season , we thought it was a good time to build on that interest and talk specifically about children and interactive AI toys . Full transparency: this blog is essentially the result of a discussion between me and… me. We’ve known each other a long time. Our thoughts are informed by research...

  AI, Babies, and Holiday Gifts. At what age should a child have a phone or smart device? The “accepted rule” seems to be 12–13, but almost half of the kids now get them at 10. But how about if I suggested birth? Maybe a month old? No? Silly question? Not really. Because ready or not, technology, and especially AI, is marching straight into your child’s life this year through Holiday gifts that blur the line between toy and "bestie". “Child’s play” is about to go through an existential transformation, and parents should think before they jump into the abyss. Here’s a blurb lifted straight from one AI-toy product page: “Through your child’s regular interactions with it, (cuddly toy) will develop its own unique personality. The depth of its emotional expression makes (cuddly toy) an advanced AI robot that offers a rich bond of companionship and comfort for your child.”  And the ads insist your child will bond with it for life.  For life. Cuddly Toy that creates a friends...

  Thanksgiving: Gratitude, Chaos, and That One Project I Swore I’d Finish So here we are, Thanksgiving—my favorite holiday of the year. It has always struck me as uniquely pure. A holiday designed, quite literally, to distract us from our problems so we can focus on gratitude and give people a reason to come together. That’s it. No ulterior motive. No cards to buy, no gifts to exchange. Just a day meant for gathering. It’s beautifully simple. Maybe that’s why it works. A 250-page book of handwritten grateful messages collected from strangers around the country Thanksgiving really does go back to a Pilgrim - Native American feast in the 1600s. And yes, I could give you the whole history, but I’m limited on words here and I assume you know how to search. What’s more interesting is that Abraham Lincoln made it a national holiday during the Civil War. Why? Because even he realized this country needed a timeout. One day for everyone to sit down, breathe, and say, “Okay, things are awful...

  ∞ 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD HAVE INDOOR PLANTS ∞   (Yes, YouTube Made Me Say That)   ∞   For openers, I have to confess: this headline is exactly what they told me to do on YouTube. Evidently, you’re more likely to read this blog if I shout “ 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD …” instead of simply suggesting you think about indoor plants. I apologize. I also feel better having gotten that off my chest. Now that the weather is cooling, outdoor cleanup is wrapping up, and those of us in the cooler and colder regions are retreating indoors, it’s the perfect time to shift to the simplified version of gardening— bringing the green inside . There’s still something deeply satisfying about getting your hands in the soil, tending to living things, and enjoying the reward of what grows. Cold weather doesn’t mean you have to lose that feel-good connection. Indoor gardening gives you color, texture, flowers, and even edible plants—herbs, microgreens, and real food grown right from your own d...

  Got Time? Want to Feel Good? Volunteer for a Non-Profit.  Someone Needs You. ∞   It’s a win-win kind of thing—actually, a trifecta. Keep reading, you’ll see why. In an earlier blog, we talked about Autumn’s beauty,  changing leaves, crisp air, and beautiful walks in the woods. But as one reader pointed out, this season can also bring shorter days, cooler weather, and a dip in mood or energy. The transition can affect both our physical and mental well-being. We did some research (not hard to do today…) about the why and what of that and we came up with three basic things. First, it’s real, second it affects a fair number of people, third there are things that can be done to help yourself, and others, manage it. There are some great, free support organizations across the Country, both national and local. Just do a search and you’ll find the right one for you. Don’t be shy about reaching out, you’re not alone. As part of the new AMTIFY™ direction is “doin...

Fishing – A Great Hobby For Mind and Body. (Contributed by Jake Fratt). If you’re like me, you love being outdoors and connecting with nature. There’s something special about breathing in fresh air, hearing birds calling from the trees, and watching wildlife go about their day. Fishing gives me all of that and so much more. In a world filled with technology, deadlines, and constant noise, putting my phone down, getting outside and spending time near the water offers me a mind break I can’t get anywhere else. When I pick up a fishing rod, I’m not just catching fish, I’m catching a moment to breathe. Sometimes I don’t even put a hook on my line, just a float and a sinker… One of the things I love most about fishing is that anyone can enjoy it. Beginners, pros, kids, grandparents can do it alone or all together. Then there’s the discovery. Always a new place to go and experience, always a new technique to learn, or a new kind of fish to chase. Whether you’re out on a boat or castin...

 Autumn, the Changeover Season. When I think of Autumn, I think of shorter days, cooler weather (by a lot), the beautiful landscape of color that nature presents, and, of course, gardening. My guess is that most people go straight to imagining the intense display of colors, the cooler weather and shorter days, and that’s fair. But since there are a couple of “Gardening by Hacks” blogs here, I have to include the end stage of that three-season hobby.  First, the color. Autumn’s transformation from summer’s endless greens into a kaleidoscope of yellows, oranges, and reds feels almost otherworldly . It’s nature’s grand finale before winter sets in, a living work of art that rivals the Northern Lights in beauty and wonder. People travel long distances to witness this seasonal spectacle, and for good reason. It’s a sight of bright, layered colors, sunlight filtering through the trees, and a gaudy carpet of fallen leaves covering the ground.   Looking out of my window, the ho...